Songwriter S.G. Goodman on Making Music That Heals

S.G. Goodman Goes After Southern Stasis and That Old Time Feeling on Jim James-Produced Debut
S.G. Goodman Goes After Southern Stasis and That Previous Time Feeling on Jim James-Produced Debut

I used to be raised in a small city in Western Kentucky and the Southern Baptist church was on the heart of on a regular basis life. I’m additionally a homosexual girl. Who I’m doesn’t precisely jibe with how I used to be raised to be.

However, I didn’t need to disguise perpetually, simply to be able to preserve the peace. I used to be having a tough time with dwelling a twin life, with the ability to be out amongst sure individuals after which hiding myself round others. It obtained me to the purpose that I used to be prepared to provide myself some reduction. After I got here out to my group, it wasn’t a simple street, to say the least. The backlash and lack of acceptance was a traumatic expertise.

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However music helped that course of. All through the traumatic high-wire act of being myself and navigating the dynamics of my group, I saved writing, singing and dealing. By the point I signed my report deal in 2020, I had disclosed my queerness to just about everybody I felt it significant to inform. It was additionally 2020, and numerous artists have owned their id, and didn’t suppose a lot of it.

Billboard introduced my report signing, and included reference to me as a “queer farmer’s daughter.” I wasn’t fairly ready for the backlash I acquired on social media from members of my group and in addition random individuals. I felt uncovered, and needed to relive the trauma of popping out the primary time round.

Random individuals on social media wrote to say they had been praying for me. Folks near me wished to know why I hadn’t informed them. There have been a whole lot of points. For years earlier than I used to be out, I believed if I may make one thing of myself, then nobody may query it. I lastly felt like I used to be doing one thing that folks might be pleased with me for–and came upon that wasn’t true. I spotted then and there that to some individuals, nothing I may ever do might be an actual accomplishment, as a result of I’d be doing it whereas homosexual.

After that, I knew I wanted to harden up or else the homophobia would eat my profession alive. Concern of rejection couldn’t personal me anymore, and I needed to reside my fact absolutely. The significance of caring for my psychological well being additionally took priority, and I continued the work of remedy and exploring the traumatic emotions, coping with my OCD as properly.



So, when it got here time to jot down [my newest album, released in June] Enamel Marks, nothing was off limits. Concern was not an element, and I made a decision to take a seat within the feelings of unrequited love, lack of affection, trauma, ache and grief. Moderately than disguise from them or play the sufferer, I used the teachings.

I began writing particular person songs, and doubled down on my imaginative and prescient. This album explores how the presence or lack of affection leaves its mark on us. Nobody escapes the marks left behind from how love is carried out or from its extension being denied. Not solely are we those who bear its indentations, however we’re additionally those answerable for inserting them on ourselves and onto others.

For me, this had very a lot to do with my popping out expertise, and the significance of redressing the trauma and impression that lack of affection and help had on my life. My track “Keeper of the Time,” which closes out the album, addresses precisely that. I did my finest to jot down about my understanding of how the physique shops our experiences. How the buck ends with us, the person, with regard to how we course of being a witness to like or a participant. Oftentimes these experiences are saved within the physique as trauma, and what we proceed to hold will present up inside ourselves and might be lived out in entrance of others. It harkens to our particular person accountability to interrogate what we supply, and the way what we supply impacts the best way we’re capable of present up for ourselves and for these round us.

Making music for me is a technique to course of feelings. It’s an extension of remedy, and has turn into a method for me to play out reactions and responses. A youthful model of me would in all probability have written a lot completely different lyrics. The truth is, I don’t suppose I may have admitted that there was any accountability on my finish at an earlier time in my life. Greater than doubtless I might have targeted on how I had been a sufferer to a different particular person’s carelessness, or my lyrics would have spoken of resentment.

However having been by way of what I’ve been by way of, on Enamel Marks, I used to be capable of sit with the ache of all of it, letting the love and lack of affection wash over me, and categorical it in a method that reveals some gratitude for the teachings and for the ache. To others – queers, southerners, musicians or anybody else who could be going through emotional challenges, I’d say discover a place to take a seat within the feelings – whether or not it’s artwork or music or remedy or no matter permits the sentiments to clean over you. And discover a technique to categorical it in a method that feels proper. It may possibly assist.

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